Newborn Baby Gear: Must haves for a city dweller.

What does a baby really need? : Gear (0-3 months)

Want just the basics? Don’t have room for much more than that?  Here is my list of things I bought, recommend,  or saved for our newest addition.  The bare minimum this mom of 4 would say you should get in preparation for your new bundles first few months.

Let’s start with the basics, which I have broken down into the following categories:
sleep- play- eat- travel-bathe-diaper
SLEEP

-Crib:  a place to sleep in your room… or theirs!  A crib/pack and play,  or co sleeper… whatever it is you use.  We used a pack and play or co sleeper for the first few months which each kid, then they went to their crib.
Everyone has their own ideas on sleep, but the most important thing is that the baby sleeps, can I get an amen, moms?
-Baby chair/swing : I think our babies used their baby chairs more than their actual cribs for the first 3 months.  I put them in the living room or wherever I was sitting/recovering for the first few months, and since the newborn life is the sleep life, they slept perfectly in it all day in between nursing and visitors.
-Binkys/pacifiers:  I think Jack may be my first binky baby, and I am pretty happy about it, because how cute is a baby sucking on a pacifier?!
-Blankets: I swear by these ones from Aden & Anais (only the bamboo ones!).  They are so soft, my husband jokingly says he wishes they made them in adult size.  I use them  also as a nursing cover, carseat cover, blanket to lay the baby on, and burp rag.   I also recently bought these Solly Baby swaddles and love them too!  Just as soft and heavier than the muslin, if you have a fall/winter baby.
-Swaddle:  We use these, and love them.
PLAY
-A playmat:  Anyone will do.  Just something to look at for those few hours they are awake as newborns. Jack is just starting to really want to stare at something while he is awake, and watching him kick and coo at the animals that hang from the top, is just adorable.  If you want a beautiful one, I had my eyes on this one , but never actually spent the money to buy and ship it here.
EAT
This is one of the most complicated and cluttery part of babies gear… Whether nursing or bottle feeding (or both), you need so many things to feed a baby well.
-Burp rags:  Something to wipe up the spit up…anything.  ha!  old t shirts. or something fancy, Lord knows we don’t want to be smelling like cheese from our kids spit up all over us.  I use little muslin ones I found in here, but also loved having my favorite thin swaddles around to use as well.
-Boppy/nursing pillow:  Save your upper back now, and invest in a good nursing pillow.
-Bottles:  I have used these bottles   based on the recommendation of one of my first mommy friends 10 years ago!  Lots of pieces to wash, but less gassy babies, so I’d say it’s a good return on your investment.
-Breast pump: handpump  or normal pump depending on you r budget and how much you will need to pump.  I have used both, but really like a good hand pump because you can control the pull/suck.
-Storage bags for milk
-Formula
-Bottles
-Bottle drying rack
-Bottle brush 
-Nursing cover:  a friend recently bought me this one and swears by it!  The other three babies, I just used one of the apron looking covers you get at Babies R us.
TRAVEL
-Stroller: This could be a dissertation if I wanted.  So many strollers, so many price points (from  the price of a t shirt to a new car!).  I am gearing up to try a couple, but I’d say this is a need. Our city is pretty bumpy and cobblestoney, so I don’t use one here unless we are travelling or I know we will be somewhere that is easily navigated with a stroller.  Like a mall, or a specific park.
-Baby carrier:  My two go-tos with Jack are the Sollybaby, and the Ergo.  With previous babies I used the Moby Wrap, and all sorts of random clip on carriers, but overall I would say I love the Solly and Ergo the best.
The Solly is my favorite for the newborn days, when they just are so sweet, snuggly and sleep on you for a long time.  This is particularly helpful for outings, when your baby just sleeps through it all.   I will say the Solly, or any wrap for that matter is an investment in your time to put on.  I can sling mine on in a minute or so after 9 years of baby wearing, but in that rush of a crying baby, or trying to get out of a car with other kids it adds some time.
The pay off of snuggling your baby though, that’s priceless.  The ergo, is fast, and you can carry a kid from newborn until they are about 3…so if I were you, I would get both!
-Carseat: It’s the law!  Even in Istanbul, where we don’t have a car and use metros, buses, trams etc…  we use our carseat if we are in a taxi.  This is the one we have used for the last 3 kiddos, and we really like it.
BATHE
-Washcloths
-Soap: something gentle, pure and delicious smelling
-Towel
-Bath:  I had the big invasive baby bathtub with our oldest, but when it comes down to it throwing this bath seat in a big sink or bathtub is much easier, and takes up way less room.  Also, if you travel much- it folds up perfectly for your suitcase!
DIAPER
-Diapers: My all time favorite, which I can’t get in Turkey 🙁  I used them with Nora, and I can testify they work!  Also, they are soooo cute!
-Booty creme: To keep the rashes away!
-Wipes

-Changing pad/area: Changing table, floor, pad etc. Somewhere to diaper the little love.

How To Capsule a Family

Capsule wardrobes may seem cool, but the organizing process can be overwhelming… and doing it for 6 people even more so!   Here are some simple tips or steps to follow to help you figure out the process.
1.   WHAT DO WE HAVE? ::       
Take an inventory of what you have in your closet- I prefer making it visual by laying it all out there.  You may be super surprised at how many clothing items you actually have!
Go through your piles (person by person is probably less overwhelming than every clothing item in your whole house).
Get rid of things that you don’t like, don’t fit, or your kids grew out of.  If you have a huge pile (which I hope you do) of old clothes… donate  them, sell them, or trade them in!
I literally wrote down every single item of clothing my family owns… Type A much?  As I was going through everything, I realized I have some items already that I had seen in the mall and wanted to buy.  I had just forgotten about them in storage.  For me, it felt good to have this all organized.
2.  WHAT DO WE WANT?::  
Ask yourself these questions as you decide what to keep::  What has inspired me ?  What trends do I want to copy?  Why do I want to  keep it?  Does it fit?  Does it make you happy?  Is it even my style, or it something I wish I could pull off?
Throw it in a pile if the reason to keep it isn’t good enough.
Thought’s on wanting:
From what you have:  Think about whether or not it actually fits, if you’ve worn it in the past year, or if you’re even keeping it for a realistic reason.  If not.. toss it!  The real reason you want to keep it may be silly or not even make sense when you actually stop to think about it.
From what you don’t have:  I actually keep Pinterest boards of things that i see that i think are cute, or I want to copy basically.  This could help you as you plan out your wardrobe/style and shopping for the next season.
See my Pinterest boards for my whole family here!
3.  WHAT DO WE NEED?::
          Is there anything that we just need to complete our wardrobe this next season?  Did you just tear your rain boots and need a new pair? Did you kids grow out of all their jeans or rip holes in them?
Did you lose your favorite jacket?  Figure out what you need, add it to a list…
 4.  SHOPPING TIME!!::
Make a list of what you actually need so you’re not just buying whatever catches your eye!  Simplicity  and not just buying crap will make you feel better, I promise 🙂
Take your pictures or ideas of looks you want to copy and  go online, in the store, or on one on one dates with the kiddos.. however you like to do it, Go get your goods so you don’ have to shop for a few more months!

Capsule Wardrobe: Infants!

Babiessss, man. They take up more gear than adults ya know?
I remember when we had Evan, who will be 9 next month. I literally had to mourn the whole process of leaving the house.  I used to be able to leave in 20 seconds.  Grab my purse, phone, wallet and jump in the car.
When you have a baby, you make sure they are fed… in a clean diaper, and going to be happy in the car for whatever amount of time you will be trapped in a small box with them.  On top of that, where you’re going matters… Do I need toys, gear, extra outfits ? bottles… nursing gear?  I will just say now, having a baby and trying to live minimally is going to be a pull in may directions.
Sooooo, if you’re a mother, caretaker, father or are ever around babies… you know they take a lot of gear.  So welcome to this post,  and series  “What does a baby realllly need?”
This first post is on clothes.  And since I am on my fourth kid, I am going to say, I may have something to share about this, but also may not because I forget things a lot.  SO here we go, what does a baby really need and why?
 
Here is what I am going to prepare with upon bringing Jack baby home from the hospital.  I am hoping this small wardrobe will be good for him for 0-6 months.    I will update you as time passes to let you know if it worked or not, but I am going super minimal and see if it works.
Either way, I promise you, you need way less than you think you do clothing wise in general. Even with babies.
  Jack Baby’s Newborn Capsule Wardrobe::
10 onesises (long or short or both sleeved):: Seasonal obviously.
4  Pants:: Based on the season, you can do thin ones for summer or thicker fleece/sweats for winter.
4  Pajamas:: Unrelated to practicality- baby pajamas are the cutest.
4  Outfits
10 pairs of socks-:: hese things get lost like it’s their job, .
2 hats :: I am doing one warmer hat since he is due in October and one thinner normal hat.
2 mittens.:: Mostly for those first few months when they just want to scratch their eyeballs out.

What’s Up What’s Up?

Been gone for a while, but am returning to the blog, and the capsuling, and the documentation of life. 🙂

What’s been going on in Istanbul… welll…

I’m 30 weeks pregnant. So there’s a little something. 😉

 

March
Easter
Mother’s Day
July sometime 😉

 

 

We have had a crazy summer, with  extended family health issues, two trips to America, a 10th anniversary getaway to Italy, pregnancy and life with 3 kids in a big city.

I am back though, and excited, and ready to capsule some maternity wardrobes… baby outfits, and even talk minimalist living with 4 kids, one of which is a newborn.

We all know newborns can accumulate a lot of stuff, so join me as I figure out how to do this thing.  Any favorite things or items I have to buy for the 4th baby?

I feel the need to have less stuff for this kid, then I ever did for the other ones.  He just needs, clothing, food and love right??

 

Nora’s Summer Capsule Wardrobe:: Toddler Girls

Baby girls clothes, they just about put me over the edge they are so cute!  Dressing a girl is fun, and while she has her preferences which can be quite strong, we have managed to only have a few small fights over clothes.  She’s 2 people.  2 years old and arguing with me about what she wants to wear.  Ok, counseling issues aside, here is what you can find my baby girl running around California in this summer.
Here is Nora’s Summer Capsule Wardrobe::
ToddlerGirl-Summer
13 t shirts or tank tops: 1.tulip striped pink tank 2.teal tank 3.popsicle tank 4.black graphic tank 5.black t strap tank 6.water color tie tank 7. blue anglaise 8. coral embroidery 9. striped henley 10. grey henley 11.  Istanbul t shirt 12. flower shirt navy  13. blue embellished tank
2 long sleeve shirts: 14. ballerina 15. chambray button up
2 swim suits:  23. red, white & blue stripes  24.teal ruffle swim suit
1 swim cover up: 25. swim cover up
1 sweater: 26. side zip sweatshirt
5 shorts:  27. pull on print  28. jean   29. pink denim   30.jersey shorts  31.bubble shorts
4 rompers:  32.. pink denim overalls  33.. neon coral   34. gauze romper 35. chambray romper
2 pants:   36. light grey leggings  37. pink coral leggings

 

 

Eli’s Summer Capsule Wardrobe:: Toddler Boys

Summer time is here!  We are getting ready to head from Istanbul to the great old USA, so you may notice I went crazy with the red, white and blue this summer in our capsules.  Nothing like declaring your love for your country than a Summer Capsule Wardrobe planned around the flags colors.  Ha!
Hopefully I can post some on our travels and time in California.  For now, this is what Eli is wearing this summer!
Here is Eli’s Summer Capsule Wardrobe::
ToddlerBoy-Summer
9 shirts:   1. american pocket t  2. striped neon tank  3.  red pocket henley  4.  red, white & blue striped henley 5. grey & white striped pocket  t 6.grey basic t shirt 7. Palm Springs  8.blue pocket 9. Giants tank
2 polos:    10.red polo 11. navy polo
2 long sleeve:  12. bw striped henley  13. baseball t
1 collared shirt:  14. chambray button up
2 sweaters:  15. American flag  16. grey quilted zip up
3 shoes:  17. adidas sneaker  18.  swim flip flop  19. birkenstock
2 rash guards:  20. whale rashguard  21. long sleeve rashguard
2 swim suits: 22.  striped trunks  23. red trunks
4 lounge shorts:   24. grey athletic   25. black sweat   26. blue sweat   27. red sweat
6 shorts:   28. hurley khaki  29.  seersucker  30. blue roll cuff  31. jean roll cuff  32.grey & blue stripe  33..canvas black cutoffs
2 lounge sweats:  34. camouflage  35. lightening
2 pants:  36. skinny  37.  light grey skinny

Summer Capsule Wardrobe Preparation:: Traveling

Well, it’s getting warmer in Istanbul, and it’s also getting closer and closer to summer.

This summer, our family will be in a few different places: Southern California, Central California and Istanbul.  While both places are going to be hot.  I am figuring out how to make a capsule wardrobe for myself especially that will cover both climates and cultures.

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Both Istanbul and Southern California have warm summers.  California is hot and dry. Istanbul is hot as well, but much more mild… where it makes up for the heat in lower temperatures, it sure makes you hate humidity.    It is so humid and gross in Istanbul during the summer, I just could barely handle it last year.

As far as culture goes, the guys and Nora can all wear whatever they want.  I don’t know about you, but while I am overseas, I generally like to dress so I don’t stick out too much.  That being said, while in Istanbul I generally cover up a bit more than I would while I am home in Southern California.  While we are in California I can’t wait to let the sunshine hit my shoulders and legs!!  But while in Istanbul, I will likely find a couple pairs of cool summer pants. Which means I have to have the proper blend of summer pants and shorts to be comfortable in both places.

So as I plan my 37 pieces, I am taking into account these things… humidity, culture and comfort.  Always comfort.

Here are some things to take into account in your summer planning if you are going to be using a Capsule Wardrobe:

-Climate.   California gets upwards of 110 while Istanbul never hits over 90, and is on the water.  This means I need to buy accordingly.  Also evenings are chilly.

-Culture.  Where are you traveling?  Overseas? Europe?  Asia?  It’s always good to take into account what locals are wearing, if you’re crossing cultures.

-Location specific/Vacation specific items:  I will likely leave these out of my capsule.  Examples would be: a beach hat, camp clothes, or other random things you may want for your summer adventures.

-Clothes for the journey.  Are you flying in a plane?  Going to be in an RV all summer?  I am including things I know I can feel comfortable in on our multiple plane rides this summer.

 

What about you!!?

Where are you going this summer?

Are you going to try to capsule your vacation wardrobe?

And is anyone else excited for how easy this makes packing??

 

 

 

 

Women’s Spring Capsule Wardrobe

Oh man, this was my first Capsule Wardrobe, and it was so hard to make!  Developing a fashionable, practical wardrobe for 3 months felt like such a hard task for some reason.  I had such a hard time making the decisions for what to buy and what to include.  Then trying to figure out if they items I chose would even work well together, and spending money on myself!  :/  I felt super stressed and non committal at times during the process, but now that I have been wearing these items for a couple months, and have a bit of a routine with clothes storage and laundry, I am absolutely in the Capsule Groove!  If I were an emoji it would definitely be the dancing red lady.

Some of my challenges in making this occurred when I realized, I didn’t even really know what I liked to wear, or what fit me well.  Do I even wear dresses that often?  It seemed silly to not include them with how beautiful spring can be.  How many sweaters do I need?  It can be pretty cold here in Spring, it snowed last March…What do I do about that?!

Well, I think I covered my weather bases, and threw together a decent capsule for my first one.

I’ll share more on my reflections posts, but for now, let’s get to my clothes this Spring.

 

 

Here is my Spring Capsule Wardrobe::

Kim-Spring

7 t shirts:  1. grey tissue t  2.  black solid v  3. white tissue scoop 4. navy tissue scoop  5.  grey stripe flowy  6. grey tissue scoop 7. white flowy boxy
9 shirts:  8. white pocket blouse 9. grey flowy back  10.  striped zip back  11. navy thick stripe  12. blue button up   13. peasant blouse  14 linen teal stripes  15. blue linen color block 16.  button back yellow flowy sweater
2 sweaters: 17. pink thick knit  18.  grey scoop
7 shoes: 19. hunters 20. black bootie  21.camel booties 22. silver slip ons  23.converse 24.birkenstocks 25.  gold sandals
4 dresses: 26. chambray  27. striped t shirt 28. grey t shirt 29. green t shirt
4 pants: 30.  skinny white 31. blue skinny jeans  32.  skinny distressed  33.black skinny jeans
 4 jackets:  34.  orange rain coat  35.  grey wool 36.  khaki green 37. jean
(Bold links above are exact or similar items).

Evan’s Spring Capsule Wardrobe:: Boys

 Evan is our oldest. Kind, sensitive, and always reading.  He is 7 and in first grade.
He wears a uniform to school, and those darn shirts are included in his capsule.  Also, they are white.  Whoever decided to give elementary school kids white uniform shirts should also have been required to supply bleach to the mothers of that school on their dime.  White is a no no in my rule book for dressing kids. If they are wearing white, there is a 98% chance it was gifted to them, or required for a social function.
Here is Evan’s Spring Capsule Wardrobe::
 Boys 37 Piece Spring Capsule Wardrobe
8  t shirts: 1.navy striped pocket -t  2. teal pocket henley 3. grey specked pocket -t 4.  weathered grey pocket t  5. space t 6. istnbul t 7. star wars t 8. palm trees
2 collared shirts:  9. short sleeve stripes  10.blue oxford 
5 uniform shirts: 11-15. White polo with school logo.
3 long sleeve shirts:  16. grey plain  17. grey surf  18. grey graphic
2 shoes: 19. nikes  20. blue sneakers
4 sweaters:  21.camo sweatshirt  22. blue quilted  23.light grey pullover  24. school uniform
2 jackets: 25. blue light jacket  26. fleece
2 shorts: 27. gap denim 28. grey
3 lounge pants:  29. grey waffle  30. lazy sweats  31.  camo sweats
6 pants: 1. blue pants 2. blue skinny jeans 3. skinny jeans 4.grey skinny jeans  5.slim black jeans  6.  dark grey
(Bold links above are exact or similar items.)

Is Capsuling more work? :: 1 month reflections

 

About a month in and maybe you are wondering,  Is capsuling more work?

While I was shopping for our clothes for Spring, taking pictures and figuring out what my family would be wearing and not wearing, I really wondered if capsuling was more work than just wearing what we used to was.
I figured it would be helpful to take a step back and reflect on why I even took on this project.  Starting this all felt like a lot of work, just for clothes.  It seemed maybe silly at time, but in the beginning any transition is more work. Starting a new diet- planning meals, putting a kid in a new school -paperwork, moving to a new home or city -logistics! stress!
 Really any change requires a decent amount of work, it is the long term result that should be the measure of it’s worth.

So far, in this transition, I have been happy with the result.  We are so early in the transition, just one month into our first capsule.  We have a lot to learn, and tweaking to do… but I will say so far- so good.  We like it!  I like it! The kids do too.  So while this has been an investment in time, effort and money,  it has definitely been worth it in the end.  I think after we have this system down it will be good for my family in many ways.

Less clothes all over, less impulse purchasing, more  planning and thought out clothes purchases.  Also, freedom from feeling like I never had anything to wear, but tons of clothes floating around in suitcases, drawers, hampers etc.
 Just at a months end, I have noticed:
-I personally don’t ever feel like I don’t have anything to wear.
-We have less laundry to do.
-I feel more organized and in control of the clothes situation (and our capsuling journey has just started).
-The kids are happy and I am learning what their personal style preferences are, (ex: Nora seems to almost hate most dresses).
-I feel more organized, and am!
-I am happier knowing I have a system to work in for storage, purchasing and planning.
Thanks for listening, I’ll reflect again at month two!